Your child's bedroom is not just a place to sleep: it's the space where they dream, play, discover the world, and start creating their first memories. And what if I told you that the way you organize and decorate this space can influence their sleep, mood, and even creativity? This is where Feng Shui, comes in, an ancient Chinese philosophy that seeks to balance the energy of a space in order to promote harmony and well-being.
In this article, we’ll show you how to apply Feng Shui to a child’s bedroom, with simple and practical tips to help you create a calm, safe, and positively energised environment for your little one. Shall we?
What is Feng Shui (and why it matters in a child’s bedroom)
Feng Shui is based on the idea that everything around us is energy (chi), and that the way we organise and decorate a space can either facilitate or block its flow.
In a child’s bedroom, this can mean:
- More restful sleep.
- Less anxiety or restlessness at bedtime.
- A more inspiring environment for play and learning.
You don’t need to turn your home into a zen temple to apply these concepts — just follow a few basic principles or rely on our Interior Consulting
1. Choose the right position for the bed
In Feng Shui, the bed is the ‘heart’ of the bedroom, because it symbolises rest, health, and safety. It is the place where the child recharges their energy and feels protected. That’s why the bed’s position directly influences the flow of energy (the so-called Chi) within the space.
Place the headboard against a solid wall
This conveys a sense of support and stability, which is essential for the child to feel safe while sleeping (this is known as the mountain of protection). In Feng Shui, a ‘floating’ headboard can create an unconscious feeling of instability, making it harder to relax. If possible, choose an upholstered or wooden headboard to further enhance that sense of comfort.
Avoid placing the bed directly in line with the door
The position known as the ‘coffin position’ (yes, the name is a bit dramatic…) is when the feet point directly towards the door, something that represents vulnerability. Ideally, the bed should be placed so that the child can see the bedroom entrance without being perfectly aligned with it. This allows them to see who is coming in, creating a sense of security, while avoiding being directly in the path of the energy flow that enters through the door.
Keep a distance from large windows
While natural light is wonderful during the day, sleeping too close to a window can expose the child to drafts, temperature fluctuations, and excessive brightness early in the morning. In Feng Shui, this can also mean a loss of energy during sleep. If there’s no option but to place the bed near the window, use blackout curtains or blackout at night, and make sure the bed does not block the circulation of light and air during the day.
2. Colours that soothe (and stimulate just the right amount)
Colour can influence mood, energy, and even sleep or children’s bedrooms, soft tones such as light blue, mint green, beige, or lavender are excellent for creating a calm and relaxing environment, perfect for bedtime routines. These colours convey serenity and help reduce children’s natural restlessness at the end of the day.
If you want to add energy, use bright colours (yellow, orange, red) only in decorative details such as cushions, picture frames, or rugs. This way, you can bring a touch of joy and stimulation without overwhelming the space. In Feng Shui, the key is balance: too much visual stimulation can create restlessness, while an excess of neutral colours can make the environment feel monotonous. The right combination creates a bedroom that invites both rest and creativity.
3. Keep the space tidy (even with toys!)
In Feng Shui, clutter blocks the flow of energy. Of course, in a child’s bedroom, toys and dolls will inevitably appear everywhere, but having a simple storage system helps. Baskets, labelled boxes, or low shelves allow the child to take part in tidying up, helping them develop positive habits from an early age.
In addition to keeping the space’s energy lighter and more fluid, an organised bedroom also gives the child a sense of security and predictability. When every toy, book, or item of clothing has its ‘right place’, the environment becomes more functional and less chaotic, making routines easier and reducing moments of frustration.
4. Natural elements for healthy energy
Whenever possible, introduce natural elements into the bedroom:
- Non-toxic plants (such as lavender or spider plants) to purify the air and bring a feeling of freshness
- Natural wood on furniture, which conveys visual warmth and creates a more welcoming environment.
- Cotton or linen fabrics for bedding and curtains, which are breathable and comfortable to the touch.
In Feng Shui, these elements represent the connection with nature, which is essential for keeping energy balanced and healthy. Contact with natural materials stimulates the child’s senses in a positive way, strengthening the sense of security and well-being. In addition, elements such as plants or organic fibres help create a visually lighter and more harmonious space, avoiding the coldness of synthetic materials. A simple cotton throw, a natural-fibre rug, or a piece of light-wood furniture can completely transform the bedroom’s atmosphere, making it more inviting and relaxing.
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5. Avoid excessive stimulation at bedtime
Bedrooms overloaded with bright colours, scattered toys, and screens turned on can make it harder to fall asleep. In Feng Shui, it is recommended that, at night, you keep the lighting soft, tidy the space, and avoid electronic devices in the bedroom. This is worth gold for a more restful sleep.
Light also plays an essential role: cool, white lights, such as those from many LED lamps or the blue light from phone, tablet, and television screens, can inhibit the production of melatonin, the hormone responsible for sleep. Ideally, you should opt for warm, indirect lighting that creates a more relaxing atmosphere and prepares the child’s body for rest. A small table lamp with a warm yellow bulb can make all the difference to sleep quality.
6. Personalise with meaning
Objects with sentimental value, such as a special soft toy, a painting made by the child, or a family photograph, help create an emotionally safe environment.
In Feng Shui, these elements enhance positive energy and the sense of belonging.
Small changes, big results
By applying some of these Feng Shui principles to a child’s bedroom, you’ll realise it’s not just about aesthetics, but about creating a space where the child feels protected, happy, and inspired.
And if you enjoyed these tips, stay tuned because soon we will be launching a free eBook with the complete guide to decorating a child’s bedroom, from birth to age 3. It will be your ally in transforming any space into a true haven for your child.